Jessica Rhodes is a 21 year old female from Norwich, UK who works as a
telesales consultant and is also a student. She was a Pagan before
reverting to Islam a month ago.
She was born in 1991 and was adopted in 1993. Grew up in a small
seaside town on the south east coast of England, she went to university
at 19 to study for a degree in Music and she hopes to do postgraduate
qualifications in counselling starting September 2013.
She has an amazing story of her reversion and how she got attracted
to Islam. New York based lady Nazma Khan started a campaign known as
‘world hijab day’. The movement has been organised almost solely
over social networking sites. It has attracted interest from Muslims and
non-Muslims in more than 50 countries across the world. For many
people, the hijab is a symbol of oppression and divisiveness. It’s a
visible target that often bears the brunt of a larger debate about Islam
in the West. World Hijab Day is designed to counteract these
controversies. It encourages non-Muslim women (or even Muslim women who
do not ordinarily wear one) to don the hijab and experience what it’s
like to do so, as part of a bid to foster better understanding.
It was social networking that got Jessica Rhodes involved. Her friend
Widyan Al Ubudy lives in Australia and asked her Facebook friends to
participate. Jessica who was a non-Muslim decided to participate in the
world hijab day. She says: “I took part in the first World Hijab Day
and challenged myself to wear the hijab for a month. I then began
reading the Quran and the words in the Quran seemed logical and clear,
rather than in the Bible where they tend to waffle. I also did some
research into Islam as a whole and felt that it was an inclusive
religion that could give me the answers I was looking for”. Although
her parents were little apprehensive, if it was a good idea or she may
be attacked in the streets because of non-tolerance.
Several Websites like BBC, CBBC, Muslim times, Malaysian Digest has
published articles on her regarding the experience of anon-Muslim
wearing a hijab
The defining moment in her life was when she walked out in Hijab
for the first time as a non-Muslim and she could not remember what it
felt like to go without a hijab on.
On reaction of her parents/friends/relatives/Husband she says: “It
was a bag of mix, parents were not happy but they accept my decision.
My in-laws have been extremely supportive. My friends are unfortunately a
mixed bag – some are happy with my decision, others want to argue with
me about it, and still others walked out of my life altogether.”
On the question of what challenges she faced as a Muslim she said is lucky and so far she didn’t face any problem and everybody has been very supportive and open-minded about it.
She further added on the level of support from other Muslims: “I
have had some support, but not many people seem to want to reach out to
me, it is always me asking for help. When I go and ask questions, people
quote the Quran at me and do not seem open to a convert’s
interpretation of the Quran. They can improve this by being more
open-minded to other interpretations, because it is not just Westerners
who can be narrow-minded, misguided etc.”
She further adds: “sometimes I am unsure – the reaction from most
of the Muslims that I have spoken to has led me to feel like I should
leave Islam and go back to paganism as in that religion I was given a
choice about how I practice my religion, and nobody cared if I did
things my way or another way. As for the Muslim Ummah… that is in the
hands of Allah. If people worldwide, of all walks of life, are more
open-minded perhaps we can move forward but if not, we will simply
continue to be in a mire of misconceptions, anger and pointless wars”.
Jessica wore the hijab for the first time last week to her office and got wonderful response.
Maa Sha ALLAH
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ReplyDeleteMashaAlah may Allah bless her and her family though her Aameen
ReplyDeleteJESSICA..Let my pass my thanks to ALLAH and to you for been Muslim.God Bless you and your family
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